What would it take for you to be a hero? A red cape? A
super power? Marine training? I dont think so. I believe we each
have the appropriate abilities to be someones hero. When we think
HERO, we typically imagine a magically powerful superhuman saving the
day in some wild scenario that took an hour and a half to set up. We
have been influenced by too many movies and television. But I believe
we are living in the midst of real live heroes in everyday situations
who are just like you and me. No wait, make that, heroes who are actually
- you and me.
My friend, Cinda, chooses to give of her time and energy to participate
in the Big Brother/Big Sister Program and has for many years. She has
mentored three Little Sisters and currently has a Little Brother (because
there are not enough men involved in the program.) She spends time each
weekend doing things like visiting museums, reading, sledding and playing
games to benefit this little boys life. They have a great time
together and she always calls with the latest funny thing Teegan has
said. Her Little Brother sees her as a hero, as do I.
Someone in the office recently pulled me aside, quite disturbed, and
whispered that they thought someone here must be living out of their
car. There was a car in the lot filled to the brimmed with food and
groceries. But no, that was Nancy Parks car, and, no, she doesnt
live out of her car she is involved with a food pantry program
and collects food from local grocery stores and transports it to the
pantry to fight hunger in DuPage county. She is a hero, too.

If you have ever asked someone at EQLC for a restaurant
suggestion you have probably been made aware of Mykhas in Glen
Ellyn. It is a wonderful Vietnamese restaurant with marvelously fresh,
exotically flavored food. EQLC has supported Mykhas for years
for her fine food and also for the profound work Mykha has done in her
home country. As I understand, Mykha has donated among other things,
a water tower to help provide basic needs to a very poor land. Please
go try the fabulous food and find out more about this remarkable hero.
At EQLC, we try to do a fundraiser every year and many organizations
have benefited, among them, PADS and PAWS and a women's shelter.
Each year, Dr. Sue has a special day for practice members to bring their
pets in for Bio-Geometric Integration. That's an awesome thing
to witness, puppies and kitties, processing and shimmy-ing. The
money raised that day is donated to a different charity each year.
Dr. Sue, Hero to pets in DuPage.
Even me, my run of hero activity has seemed to surround car accidents.
I have been the first person on the scene three times. No, I didnt
cause these accidents! The worst was a small bus that had been bumped
at high speed on a toll road. It spun and flipped and people flew everywhere,
thank goodness, off to the embankment. My adrenaline was pumping as
I slowed to park my car at the side of the road. I was scared, and I
kept thinking, what can I do, offer Shiatsu? I had no plan but I ran
up the embankment. I ended up with a screaming woman who had obvious
hip and leg injuries. She was Hispanic, spoke no English, she was in
shock and wanted to go find her friends, but screamed with pain when
she tried. I held her down on my lap and locked my legs around her as
we watched ambulances, fire trucks and police cars roll in from five
surrounding cities. Muy mal, (very bad) was the only Spanish
I could muster as I looked around at the still and writhing bodies around
us.
When a paramedic finally came my way, I was prepared to get up and out
of his way, but he asked if I could stay, continue to help, wait for
more ambulances that were coming. I was surprised to find I wasnt
in the way, pleased to know I was doing the right thing. I felt a little
like a hero. I found out later, that this small bus was carrying workers,
all Hispanic, to some factory for the late shift. The driver of the
BMW that hit them was arrested for DUI. Everyone survived, Im
not sure what happened with my lady, but Im glad I stopped. Maybe
this experience is what motivated me to learn Spanish.
I apologize for not knowing each of your stories, but I would wager
that most every one of you could share a time when you have been someones
hero. I would also wager that each of us will be presented with another
opportunity to volunteer, donate, stop or even just listen. If everyone
can help someone, everyone becomes a hero. Continue to look for your
opportunities and hold your head high that you have been someones
hero.
